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Feet pointing at the door

A popular body-language hint that attention is fading.

What it is

The idea, popular in body-language books, is that feet point where a person wants to go. If someone's feet or body turn towards the exit, they may be ready to leave.

How to use it

  • Treat it as a hint, never proof. It works best alongside other signs, like checking the time.
  • Respond by summarising and asking a question that brings them back in.
  • Or offer to wrap up and agree a next step: respecting their time builds trust.

What it sounds like

You: I'm conscious of your time. Shall I sum up the two options and we agree what happens next?

Where it goes wrong

The research behind single body-language cues is thin. Do not build a decision on one gesture, and it rarely applies on video calls.

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